More Than 150 Readers Told Us Their Chain Restaurant Memories. Here’s What They Said. : NPR

Affordable, familiar and reassuring are the characteristics that make American restaurant chains a near-ubiquitous presence across the country; it’s almost as if they are an integral part of our road culture.

Despite well-documented financial struggles, a tough economy, and changing food trends, these restaurants are standing the test of time.

This series explores why these places have such resilience and how they stay afloat in a time of rapid change.

Read our first three articles in this series, including how these restaurants take advantage of nostalgia to attract guests, how they try to keep costs affordableand how social media has changed the advertising game – and become an essential key to the success of restaurants.

American chain restaurants aren’t the most glamorous places to eat. And yet, as we have reported, they hold a special place in the hearts of many Americans.

We asked our readers what comes to mind when they think of restaurants like Olive Garden, Applebee’s or Texas Roadhouse – and you shared many stories.

Not everyone interviewed waxed poetic about the merits of these restaurants. David Horton, 62, of New York, for example, said: “The foods are mostly frozen and only have flavor because of the incredible amounts of sodium they use.” »

But the overwhelming majority of responses describe vivid childhood memories shared at booths gazing excitedly at laminated menus and the type of teenage rites of passage that seem right at home in the parking lot of a suburban chain restaurant.

There is science that explains why these kinds of memories have such a hold on us.

The feeling of nostalgia is closely linked to food and smell, and these chain restaurants are often where essential memories are made – like graduation celebrations or first dates.

Chelsea Reid is an associate professor at the College of Charleston who studies nostalgia. And she’s no more immune to nostalgic feelings than anyone else, even if she understands the chemistry behind that feeling better.

“Even saying Red Lobster, I can kind of imagine the table and the things we would make and the things we would order, and my mom getting extra cookies to take home,” she said.

A Red Lobster restaurant is seen in Fairview Heights, Illinois, in 2005.

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Her closest Red Lobster has closed, but a local farmers market is selling a scone reminiscent of Red Lobster’s famous Cheddar Bay Biscuits — a flavor that she says immediately takes her back to those family outings from her childhood at the seafood chain.

“I can see my mom wrapping them in a napkin and putting them in her purse when we’d say, ‘Hey, we’re hungry,’ and she’ll pull out a cookie in her purse.”

Full disclosure: your intrepid journalists are not without sentimentality. Before we started this project, when it was just a germ of an idea, we talked frequently about the role these restaurants played in our own lives.

Jaclyn: I vividly remember cramming into a booth at my local Chili’s in my hometown, Cromwell, Connecticut, for most birthday dinners until I was about 13 years old.

I was surrounded by my mother, my father and my brother, and I could choose whatever I wanted. Except that I always chose the same thing: chicken chips with fries, to top off the evening with the chocolate and molten lava cake that we would share as a family.

I can picture it so clearly, right down to the booth we were sitting in. Now my family is scattered. But my love for Chili’s runs deep, and I still get warm and fuzzy when I think about it.

These days I’m in my 30s and I have to worry about my health and walk 10,000 steps a day. So no, I don’t go to Chili’s regularly anymore.

But when do I do it? Those chicken chips I had as a kid are still on the menu, and yes, I’ll probably order them today (although on my adult taste buds, the salt content quickly turns my mouth into the Sahara Desert).

And it’s not to celebrate my birthday. It’s because one of my best friends tells me she’s getting a divorce because of cheap, sugary margaritas.

Alane: When the pandemic hit in 2020 and much of the country went into lockdown, I was mostly alone in my one-bedroom apartment, staring at the walls.

After what seemed like a lifetime, I was finally able to expand my little COVID bubble.

One of my first “dining out” experiences around this time was in the parking lot of the Hyattsville, Maryland, Olive Garden, where my friend and I sat in absolute joy at being together — not just with each other, but also the chain’s staple soup (zuppa toscana for me, please), salad, and breadsticks (you can have all the breadsticks if I can have your share of the tomato salad).

Since then, this friend and many others have moved away – too far away to meet up for a (mostly) hot meal at a reasonably priced restaurant in a city not known for being cheap.

I recently revisited the Hyattsville Olive Garden for this story. And even though my life is different now, my friends have moved and the world has changed, it was exactly the same.

And I liked it.

Many readers said these restaurants were the type of place where a family who rarely could afford to eat outside the home could treat themselves on rare occasions.

Like Julie Philip, 51, of Dunlap, Ill., who wrote: “Growing up in the 70s and 80s, Red Lobster was an Easter tradition. We would get dressed, go to church, then drive almost an hour to Red Lobster. »

She continued: “It was one of the few days a year we could afford to eat at a ‘fancy restaurant’. I remember my parents commenting that they had to spend $35 for our family of four. I no longer consider Red Lobster a “fancy restaurant”, but as an adult, my family and I still eat there often at Easter. I remind my children that we are maintaining a family tradition and I tell them stories from my childhood while eating.”

The original Applebee’s restaurant was called TJ Applebee’s Rx for Edibles & Elixirs and opened in Decatur, Georgia in 1980.

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For Sarah Duggan, an Applebee’s parking lot evokes a key memory of adulthood.

Duggan, 32, of North Tonawanda, New York, wrote that every time she sees an Applebee’s, she remembers the time her friend, in an act of teenage rebellion, had her belly button pierced in the parking lot of a Long Island Applebee’s — inside the trunk of the piercer’s “PT Cruiser.”

Duggan held the flashlight.

She wrote, “I can’t imagine this kind of college kid shenanigans happening in the parking lot of a regular Long Island diner or other independent restaurant, but it sure seems like it was at Applebee’s.”

She continued, “It makes me think about how no one, from raging camp counselors to your spouse’s grandparents, looks or feels out of place at a chain restaurant.”