Even for the biggest romantics, Valentine’s Day can come with a lot of pressure and expectations. If you’re in a relationship, you may feel obligated to go all out for your partner—or disappointed if your loved one doesn’t fulfill some kind of movie-worthy fantasy. And if you’re single, well, you might not necessarily care about chocolates and flowers, but you’re probably going to feel a bit lonely if you don’t have anything scheduled for February 14.
The best way to avoid Valentine’s Day-related ennui is to make a plan you know will excite you, whether it involves a significant other or not. At the end of the day, the whole point of the holiday—aside from boosting sales for Hallmark Cards and Lindor chocolate truffles—is to celebrate love. While it’s the perfect occasion to spoil your significant other, it’s also an opportunity to show love your friends, your family, your pet, and most importantly, yourself!
Even if you are celebrating with a partner or friends this year, don’t let that stop you from enjoying some real me time as well. It’s like they say, you can only love someone else if you love yourself first. Send yourself heart-shaped cookies and a cute Valentine’s bouquet, or plan a staycation if your budget allows. If a full spa day isn’t in the cards, even something as simple as changing up your nails with a fresh festive manicure can remind you that love is in the air.
See? V-Day plans are what you make of them. So here are some fun Valentine’s Day activities, according to Glamour editors.
See Wuthering Heights in theaters.
The Wuthering Heights trailer set, to Charli XCX’s “Everything is Romantic,” is all the proof you need to know Emerald Fennel’s take on the Emily Brontë classic is going to be the sexiest version you’ve ever seen.
“If I had a partner, our butts would be in reclining movie theater seats for Wuthering Heights starring Margot Robbie and Jacob Elordi. Alas, I will just have to drag some friends with me. Something tells me it won’t be difficult to convince them.”—Emily Tannenbaum, contributing editor
Order in and turn on something romantic.
Of course, you can always stay in and pop on a movie. “In general, I’m a television fanatic. But on Valentine’s Day you can find me cuddled up on the couch by myself with a cozy blanket watching my favorite rom-coms like Bridesmaids or Love and Basketball.” —Monique Wilson, executive assistant
In 2026, we’re dealing with an embarrassment of riches when it comes to romance adaptations. Heated Rivalry, People We Meet on Vacation, and the first four episodes of Bridgerton season four are all available to watch this Valentine’s Day.
Be your own valentine.
“I always try to make myself feel extra special on Valentine’s Day, regardless of my current relationship status. I started the routine of sending myself flowers on Valentine’s Day, and writing a self-love letter to myself. I usually order the flowers months in advance, so I tend to forget what I wrote in the letter. But somehow, it’s always exactly what I need to hear.” —Jazmin Gathers, social media manager
Indulge a little.
In that same vein, treat yourself to some self-care or even a couples massage. “I rarely feel justified in paying for a massage, but Valentine’s Day feels like the perfect opportunity to pamper myself.”—E.T.
